Mature Guy VS Childish Boy

Seriously I wanna write about this post long time ago! And please, don't shoot me or give me those hateful comments if you dislike what I wrote here. Be mature.

To be honest, I have lots of guy friends who are younger than me. Seriously. Please, don't feel like I'm writing about you here. It's just something I see in common of all my friends are. Okayyyy~ Don't point your gun on my head and shoot me if you feel like you're the one who I'm saying here.

First, from what I see. Please, don't kill me. I need to keep repeat this. Not saying you here.

A childish boy will try to drive like a mad cow and to impress you or to scare you. And they will asked me: Are you scare? Basically, they expected me to say: "Oh no, please. I'm scare. Don't drive so fast!" Then they will have the satisfaction if I said that. But I usually ended up said: Err, did you actually drove fast? I don't feel the speed. Or I might said: What the hell? Why the hell you break? What the hell wrong with you? Get the hell out from the seat, let me drive!

A mature guy drives. Make sure you put on seat belt and sit quietly there. And the worst part is, they drive like a tortoise. Seriously. Like: No speeding. Follow the rules. Damn polite. Oh my Goddd. What the hell wrong with this man?! It's green light, move move move!!

A childish boy, for this, if your bf is a childish boy. Look. How they keep you as their barbie dolls. Hey, barbie doll. What did you do today? Who did you hang out with today? What you guys did? What did you buy? What did you eat? What you wearing today? etc etc. Lots of questions until they don't remember what they ask before. Seriously, I don't mind telling you all these stuffs. But don't you think you're much more scary than my parents now?

A mature man, your boyfriend. He will not throw all those questions to you and make you answer it. He knows you well. Knows what you usually do when you hang out with friends. He will only ask when he knew something is wrong. Wow, mind reader!!

A childish boy, ever seen a kid keep talking beside you. Making all those sound effects and make noises. Fiuuuu~ Broom~ Woooo~ Piang piang piang~ Aiyak! Yes, this is it! A childish boy, love to gossip and tell you something bad about the guy live next door, tell you the dog shits in front of his house yard, the granny who wash the toilet in mall. Dude, don't you feel tired of gossiping others? Seriously? Why the hell you telling me all those shits about others? To show me that you're good? Sorry, you make me think opposite now.

A mature man, tell you what's good what's bad. And those annoying bored but meaningful quotes so you can apply in your life. Girl, learn this, learn that. You shouldn't do this, it's gonna spoil your reputation or whatsoever !

A childish boy, pretend like a mature man saying: hey babe, marry me. You don't have to work to earn money. You just have to stay at home, cook, wash clothes and clean the house. Hello, why don't you just hire a maid to do all  that? If you think you really so capable and able to feed me, go ahead and say that. But seriously, look at the economy now. Are you sure you can do it? You don't even afford to get yourself a house yet.

A mature man, said the same thing. But prove that he is capable. *Hello, need to explain here. Not saying female only choose males who have houses and cars*. Just to tell you that, don't make those promises and give them hopes if you know you're not capable. This is what I meant. If you can't, just say it. We don't mind work and cook together. More sweet :)

A childish boy, when they fight in the public. They will ask you to go first or they will protect you when they fight. Seem so protective right? Feel sweet right? *OMG, he is so cool ! He can fight !!! Kung fu~ haiyak!! And he even protects me when he fighting and this causes the enemy hit him on his face*

A mature man will never fight in front of you and they gonna settle the problem by using their brain instead of fight to prove them you're stronger. Dude, seriously, we are human. Are you acting like an animal? Fight to get foods? *Again, I need to repeat this, if you feel angry of what I wrote, I apologize sincerely. But tell me, why are you angry? It's because you seem like one of them????*

A childish boy, laugh and scream in the public to attract attention! Do you have friends like this?! Omg, seriously I tell you what!! I feel damn shame when I'm standing beside. What the heaven wrong with this boy? Are you a monkey?

A mature man, you won't see his emotions. [Bored, am I talking to a wall?] You never catch him. [Is he actually laughing on my jokes?] They don't show much in the public. They respect you.

A childish boy loves to ask you bunch of questions and wish to get to know you. And when you reply him: dude, it's already showed. Why are you still asking me?! And he will answer you: I want you to tell me and the sentence will end up with love love love love love. 

A mature man won't ask you. He will try to observe you. [Yiewww~ sounds like a creepy man!]

A childish boy will ask you what to do when they facing a problem. God damn it babe, I shit on my pant! What should I do now? *Go wash your ass now idiot!* 

A mature man will solve his problem and wipe his ass by himself without letting you know and make you worried. 

A childish boy will buy those expensive and useless thingy. Or they prefer something nice in physically. err, expensive and useless thingy. Basically what I meant was, what they paying for the product is actually higher than the value and the benefits they get from the product. I'll give you an example: A product which has the same function with other brands. Dude, seriously same function same things. But the childish boy actually pay RM2k for that and we can actually get it in RM200. Big different right? So, conclusion. The childish boy: Cool ma, let people see what brand I use. Yeng bo?! [ Sei mei? Haven't start to earn money and spend money like a mad cow ] 

A mature boy, don't even know what the brand is. Only go for something he likes without caring so much. Like those elderly said: You don't have to buy something luxury to impress others, impress others with what you have inside you. Or another one, don't show off what you have, you are good as long as your wallet is fat enough. 

A childish boy, force you to listen the songs he likes. "Eh, this song nice. Bababadadadalolololdududu, you got no idea what the hell the song is actually creeping. Hello, your cd got problem??" And you gotta listen to the song for the whole journey in the car. 

A mature man, concern what you like and sometime listen to what he likes. He is happy when he sees you smile. He gives you opportunity to turn to another channel. Try to know what you like. 

A childish boy, playing with you, hold your hand, keep look at you when he is driving. Dafuq? I don't have insurance and I think he is probably selling it.

A mature man, pay attention in driving. In short, bored to sit beside lol ! [Oi, talk to me laaa~]

A childish boy requires you to make up and dress up pretty when hang out with him. So he can show off to others how pretty the girl he is dating with. *Wuhooo, this pretty girl is mine!!*

A mature man stops you from make up so much and dress like normal when hang out with him. Natural is good enough. What you have internally is eternal. [ I swear I will dump the guy who ask me to make up when hang out with him! lol ]

So, boys and mens. Which one are you falling now? 

Lastly, I'm gonna repeat this again and again. Im writing this not to point at you. Don't perasan ok!? 

That's it! Bye♥♥♥

When we were kids

When you claiming you're getting older, think twice. What about your parents?

When we were kids, we used to beg our parents to let us have pet. But kids usually 3 minutes hot (change mind really fast). And end up, your parents are the one who take care of your pet. And you ignore your pet like you don't give a shit. You even feel it's so annoying.

And now, we grown up. If we have our pets on our own. You realize there are lots of work to do for a pet. You need to buy foods for them, feed them, bath them, play with them and talk to them. It's not a easy tasks. Imagine you have brought trouble for your parents when you want a pet before. They have you, and because of you, they have another pet to take care of.

When we were kids, parents don't let us to eat too much of snacks. They told us is bad for health. This and that. But we won't bother to care so much because it doesn't harm us.

And now, we grown up. We know eating too much of snacks is bad for health. And we are the one who need to stop them from eating something which is bad for their health. But this is different, they are getting older. They will easily fall sick if they ate the wrong things.

When we were kids, our parents always seem to be like heroes. They know everything, they taught us lots of things, they told us what to do and what not to. We learned a lot from them.

But now, we grow up. We are the one who taught them how to do this, how to do that. They seem weak and clueless for the technology nowadays. And sometime, we don't bother to spend time to teach them. We don't even teach them patiently and call them stupid. You wouldn't know how sad they are when you said that.

When we were kids, we feel that our parents look handsome and pretty.

But when we grown up, we saw them changing. Their hair turn white, hearing ability decrease, they can't see things well. But yet, we still laughing at them. We talk to them without patient when they can't hear properly and start screaming at them.

When we were kids, we used to play with them. Jogging, swimming, exercise and race with them. And we are the loser always.

But when we grown up, we realize they don't have the ability to race with you anymore. They turned tired really fast and you have pretend like you're loser and let them win.

When we were kids, we shits and pees like we don't give a shit. And yet, parents teach us patiently and change pants for us.

And when we grown up, and parents getting older. They might shits and pees everywhere. Be patient to them, don't feel shame and scold them in the public for making you shame. You wouldn't know how guilty they feel when that happens.

When we were kids, our parents scold us when we did wrong. But we used to scold back when we think we are right. You don't know how much you've hurt them.

And when you grow up, what you think you're right before is actually wrong. Totally wrong.

When we were kids, changing bulb, fix the sink, repair washing machine those kind of tasks are always parents' job. You don't know anything.

You grow up, you realize they don't have the ability to do that. And you should be the one to do it. Stop pretending like it's not your job. You're not a kid anymore.

When we were kids, we always wish to get the hell out of the house to stay away from them for being so annoying.

You grow up, you moved out, you're free from your annoying parents. But there will be one night, you cry because you miss how they used to be so annoying. Because they care.

When we were kids, everything seem so new for us. You want to try everything and how parents stop you and you fight with them.

And now, you grow up. You know smoke, taking drugs, alcohol, speeding are all stupid things you ever done. You fight with them because you think you should try all of it.

When we were kids, you call them stupid when they worried about you.

Now you grown up, you call yourself stupid because you made them worried. You wouldn't know how restless and anxious they could be when they know something happen to you.

Seriously, some parents are nightmare for some kids. But yet, they are the one who bring you to this world. Without them, I don't know where you could be now. Still a sperm?

Sometime we call it explain when they think is fight back. But, they always have their own reason. Be quiet and listen to what they say. You don't have to explain so much.

Please, be nice to them when you can still do it now. Because time never wait, we are growing up and they are getting older. We won't know what's gonna happen next.

Appreciate the time you with them ♥