How Typical Asian Act After They Break Up ?

1) Unfriend you on social network

 I guess it's weird to have this kind of people. Aren't is better if you keep them in your friend list and let them know that you are having good life? What's the point you unfriend them? Because you don't want to see anything from them anymore? Well, choose to hide their newsfeed then? But not unfriend by showing how typical asian you are?  

2) Still stalking you after break up 

Yep, happens all the time though. If you choose to unfriend, what is the reason you still stalking them and get to know how is everything about them? To feel more pain and to see how happy they are? Why still stalking them when you know it's going to be more pain?  

3) Delete everything 

Yepppp again. Some narrow minded people might delete everything. Yes, they do. And somehow I don't understand why do you need to delete everything and forget about it. Isn't this the reason to make you stand stronger? Shouldn't you keep it as part of your memories?  

4) Telling people they are good, and what they have done for their love one  

Yea, telling people that you are so damn good to your partner. And what you have done for your EX partner. How damn good you are and end up you got nothing. If you choose to give up everything on your partner, don't blame. Don't hate them for not appreciate it. Because you choose to do so. Don't be so damn freaking over damn stupidity childish calling yourself a stupid for sacrifice so much. Weirdo. Please, just don't make the story so complicated. No one know your relationship clearer than both of you. 

5) Become enemy  

Happens all the time. Not only asian. Like they hate each other so damn much. Calling each other a dumb ass. And end up hating each other so much and and and keep gossip non stop telling how bad their ex partner used to be. 

6) Return everything 

Ask to return everything after they broke up. Last year, I bought you a handphone, please give it back to me. I bought you an Ipad, give it back. I bought you an underwear.. etc. So called typical asian narrow minded fellow. Or return everything back to ex partner. You gave me this, Im gonna return it back to you. I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOUR STUFF ANYMORE! (well, just throw it lah, why do you need to return it purposely?) 

7) Threaten them saying that you're gonna die if they don't come back to you 

Hello, please la. Don't be so childish okay? You want die, you die far abit. Don't act like you wanna die or hurt yourself. No point hurting yourself when your ex don't give a damn on you anymore. And this not gonna bring them back, it's only make them go far away from you. So, are you ok? 

8) Create a so damn stupid story to test if your ex still care for you or nah?  

Hello lah silly, is a stupid way to act smart. Is a good thing if they care for you, but we do care for others even though they are not friend. So it's normal if they still care for you because you guys were in relationship before. If they don't care for you at all, just shut the fuck up and stop those stories. No one give a damn anymore.  

9) telling people their ex was piece of shits  

Saying that: OMG, MY EX WAS JUST PIECE OF SHITS. AND IM SO GOOD FOR THEM. YOU ARE STUPID.

  
10) call them a big burden  

Yeppppp, call them a big burden. How your ex has torture you, making your life so unbelievable upside down, etc. Why are you still in the relationship when he/she a big burden for you? And calling them a burden after broke up? Don't be 15 16. 

 11) still disturbing them even though after broke up 

Yea, this is the most annoying part ever in the world. How so? Not by disturbing them telling how much you still love them, but keep disturbing you by saying some offensive words. Scolding them like you're his/her parents. Tell all their friends how bad is their ex partner were and make all his/her friends to hate that ex. Then make their friends scold the EX in the public. Posting all over in the facebook to tell the whole world. Stop being childish la wei. A relationship ended is end. You don't have to keep mention it to tell the whole world about it. 


*Face palm 99*  When they are good, they really good. When they hate you, you're dead.

Sooooooooo, typical or no? 

There's no such thing like you're right or wrong in a relationship, is about you appreciate it or not. If you don't, shut up and leave. (Don't pattern many many) 

Life In Redang

I know I have been abandon this blog for a month seriously. Trust me, I got no idea what to update about. Well, I'll just talk about my life in an island.

Just randomly picking some nice and fun stuff to talk about.

Ehem, I'm working here. In an island. Okay, so basically the fun part is, you woke up, you get out from your room, you face the sea. Is not just normal dirty sea, is the crystal clear damn freaking light blue sea water. Yea, I'm facing it everyday from morning until night.

Yep, this scene. When I'm suppose to work and I ended up lying on the beach chair and fall asleep there. Well, is nice to see. But it's so hot to lay over there and you will get super tanned when you wake up. But don't you feel like you're living in an heaven? You don't have to worry to pay your rents, your debts and everything? No traffic jam, no need to pay your petrol, your tol and etc? Everyone said I'm stupid to work here because I'm living in an island, when Tsunami come, you dead. Seriously? What if earth quake and you die in your house? The possibility is same as yours though.

Yea an island. Get to see lots of weird and fun people come and go. Bikini sexy ladies, super nice body good looking guy. That's not the fun part for me. I don't really feel enjoy for looking at those stuffs.

And the next thing is, everyone, I mean the staffs who work here seem to be so nice and friendly. Well, seems to be. But the truth is, they are really nice to everyone. Like when you have problem, they will help you as much as they could. Like, when I wanna do stupid thing, they will keep me accompany even though is stupid. Once, I tried to put all those blue sand in a bottle because I thought it might glow when I shake it. And ended up doesn't work but yet they still willing to help me put it into my bottle.

They said there's shooting stars every night, so they brought me to a place where you get to see stars easily and clear. And they stay with me til late of night. Like 2-3am. Just to keep me accompany. And willing to wait for shooting stars with me. Isn't this great? And yep, the best part is, I get to see it every night. But well, most of the time we spend lots of time lying there just to wait for shooting stars. The best part is not get to see the stars, the best part is all of us lying there and chit chatting, joking and playing around. Is fun.

Another best part is, they said there's baby sharks and turtles if I'm lucky to see it when I'm going to snorkelling. And yes, they willing to bring me and guide me to go snorkelling. Yep yep, and I can go out swim by myself without them guiding me anymore.

One nice thing is, some staffs here they are so damn nice. They told me they got a round island trip. So, they ask me to join. I wasn't free at the beginning but luckily my boss let me go after that. hells yea. And yep, you get to go snorkelling with few people. The whole place belongs to you only. We went to few places for snorkelling and get to see sea turtles and sharks. But too bad, I never get to snap picture. I DONT HAVE A WATERPROOF CAM. :( damn

Then the fun part is still the blue sand, you get to see it in the sea water, on the sand or on your clothes. LOL. Someone told me there's lots of blue sand in the sea water, so I ended up drag few friends along and swim in the sea. HAHAHAHA. Is different feelings to swim at night in the middle of the sea with the full moon and sometime dark night. Once, I was swimming with friends and there's lots of stars all over the sky. And and, ahhhhh! Shooting star! A big one appears across the sky and I was like AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, LOOOOOOOOOOOOK! WE ARE SO LUCKYYYYYYY TONIGHT.

What else is nice? yea yea, the second time I swim in the middle of night without moonlight. And the best part was, there are blue sand all around us. your clothes, the sand, in the water, underwater...... whoaaaaa. I was like... omggg............. but it's too cold to stay in the water for too long. So we end up go back to room to sleep. Best experience :D

And didn't go to snorkelling after few weeks because getting bored and getting tanned and tanned like shit. But after all these, I still get a waterproof camera and snap some nice pictures. Too lazy to show it all here. Just gonna pick up some nice one which I posted before on facebook.

Made a video with some new friends in Redang. So enjoy it and have a nice day. Will update once I got something nice to write here.

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